When you come back from a night out with a girl and you think a kiss will be a good time, make sure that she is up for it. A hint of not wanting anything is that she has the keys in the door or she is already halfway through the door before she tells you good night.
If she doesn’t want a kiss then, try say something like “I had a good time but hmmmm it could have been better. Well…. look i’m going for coffee tomorrow, want to tag along?….bring a book”
If you want to keep your weight on the healthy side, try avoiding high carb foods before going to sleep. And if you do find yourself wondering down the kitchen with an grumbling stomach try go for high protein foods as it will keep your stomach full for longer.
This is where a protein shake could help a lot. Pour yourself a mug or glass of protein shake with milk instead of water.( that is if your brand allows mixes with milk).
Yes, that’s right there is plenty of fishes in the sea. Whenever you meet, see or go out with someone and it doesn’t turn out well, don’t worry there are plenty more out there.
Truely, there is plenty of them out there and you don’t have to worry about it. Especially at pubs/bars as girls get approached 3-10 times a day and they will probably not remember you the next day or the next week.
And you should take advantage of this to practice building your confidence. Just give a small wink and a slow smile to random girls, if you are unable to talk to them. Even better a quick and small wave while keeping eye contact.
Remember when you were a kid and you thought taking a girl to the cinema was “the ultimate” dating place. Well you were wrong. Taking someone on a date is to find out about each other if you are compatible. And going to the cinema isn’t the ideal place if you haven’t interacted with her enough to strike her interest.
At the coffee house you can doze down a couple of coffee while talking for hours about each other. And as both of you know its a date, it’s ok to linger on and on about anything.
Except for certain topics to avoid:
Complain about your work (not too much, just mention)
Lingering on and on about your work. (stay quick: 30 -60 seconds)
But remember to set another date if you feel that the date went well.